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The quest of fulfilling my dreams and desires

Life is not fair not that it ever will, this is an obsolete statement for a dreamer like me, I would like to make it fair for myself somehow and I will.

I have always been a wanderer. I always wanted to explore all aspects of life in order to understand the real meaning behind it.

My mind has always been overly active, curious and I have usually been seeking answers to all my queries; why is it like that? Why it can’t be this way instead? What if we do it this way or the other?

You got to be optimistic in order to survive in this world especially if you are my kind of non conformist or non-mainstream individual.

It took me a while to understand or quite literally two years of isolation, anti depressants, multiple therapy sessions, detachment, remorse, loneliness, grief and so many other emotions to finally come to terms with my individual identity.

I am mysterious, inquisitive, aloof, extremely sentimental and affectionate.

Yet it is still difficult to live with a person like me!

Why do I call myself a dreamer?

I am a realist dreamer. Just to clarify in case if you misconstrue my statement. What I meant by that is I exactly know what I deserve and I also believe in the fact that if you have the courage to be patient and if you are confident about what you are asking for from this universe, then surely you will receive it.

Life is about struggle. It’s also about achieving your goals and working hard for it, and to achieve that one needs a proper chalked out plan developed from their own intellect, not influenced by anyone.

As they say it’s never too late (it is 9:00am in the morning and I am craving for New York cheese cake at the moment!) Let’s ignore my cravings for now… How to make a plan?

For that we actually need to know what we really want from life?

It is very simple

Let me explain it through an equation:

Peace of mind -> Happiness -> Validation -> Success -> Companionship -> Love=Money

It all comes down to finances. From birth to death everything requires money.

So the above mentioned equation actually depicts what we all are seeking for which mostly equates to or is totally dependent upon how much money do we make.

However, making money is not the goal, it’s the process. This equation has no place for any plan. Hence it’s an incomplete equation.

Dream or goals without a plan is just a wish.

It’s not bad to dream but it’s awful to just keep on dreaming…..

I have major dreams and goals. Trust me, I genuinely do. But the state of mind I am in I have become too overwhelmed by everything. I can’t seem to think clearly, knowing that I can’t function like that. I need clarity, I need inspiration to live, and I need to come out of this remorseful mindset!

Never in my life I imagined being in this position where my routine will be all messed up, my stomach will constantly be rumbling and aching, my sleep cycle will go haywire, I will have no energy to survive, smile or laugh and most importantly will no longer be left with the desire to live.

Till now it’s pretty clear what our goal is (Take a look at the above mentioned equation and reverse it) more or less that equates to most of us and our goals in this life.

How to make money and simultaneously do what you love are too parallel statements, and to distinguish between these two is how a wise and a wealthy person conduct their lives and fulfill their dreams.

 

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