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Is Removal equal to Renewal?

 Day before yesterday I implored my mum to finally remove my 10 year old nose ring.

As a matter of fact, I got this nose piercing done some ages ago, actually just when I took my first step into this big wild world.

I was almost 18 years of age, full of ambitions and desires, ready to accomplish my goals. Haha!

Life  does not plan out exactly like how you want it to be, and you don’t understand this while experiencing it, it’s later when you connect the dots that’s when you realize that oh damn! I never imagined that it would turn out to be like this for me.

Sometimes you let; certain events happen to you and some other time certain events just out of the blue takes place in your life when you were not anticipating it.

I underwent a catharsis during the process of removal of that pint-sized white gold nose ring

I know it’s a very stupid statement to make, but I felt it.

A very significant decade of my life got lifted off my shoulders, it’s surreal.

Obviously it was quite painful and it was so difficult to remove it, but with some help and willingness, I finally could able to completely get rid of it.

I believe it’s as easy as it sound.

If you have accepted yourself and your condition, and you are willing to ask for help from the right people around you and you are ready to take some actions to change, it will eventually happen.

Knowing what you don’t want is as important as having the clarity of what you really want from life.

It’s advisable to understand it as early as possible, but do take your time, and once you have reached to a certain decision then stick by it.

Staying with the choice which you have made for yourself is really the difficult part than making any decision.

Don’t compare your life to others, but try to remove the factors which are causing you pain and get renewed almost instantly.

Knowing those factors is actually the trick, to give you an insight, ask yourself this more often ‘what makes you happy other than money, food, shelter, clothes, entertainment and companionship?’ there has to be a purpose, there is that thing which you are most petrified to achieve because you are over thinking about: ‘what others would think’ but you somewhere know, that unattainable wish of yours will actually really make you come alive if only you dare to work for it.

Remove those fears, remove those thoughts, remove those inhibitions by facing them and ultimately begin your new journey of happiness.

I just related my first step towards transformation which I plucked up the courage to take, after so much of a melodrama and a long period of stagnancy, with something as skimpy as getting rid of a decade old nose ring.

What are you removing from yourself to get renewed?

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